I first learned the power of questions from Barry Neil Kaufman, author of To Love Is To Be Happy With. “Bears,” as he likes to be called, teaches that you can. This is the first recording of Bruce Di Marsico to be released by his widow, Deborah Mendel. Bruce created the Option Method in In this live recording . The Collected Works of Bruce Di Marsico on the Option Method & Attitude, Vol. 1 [ Bruce Di Marsico, Deborah Mendel, Wendy Dolber, Frank Mosca, Aryeh.
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He describes the difference between wanting and needing. As I sat thinking of what to say about my memories of Marskco, my mind ranged over the years and the many wonderful things he had said that were so incredibly clarifying and insightful. I remember you Bruce, with love, with gratitude and with happiness.
I question beliefs much like Sherlock Holmes investigated a crime or Socrates guided his students into clarity. He never did get around to publishing a book himself, but he brucce us with a wealth of material to work with.
The baffled Barnaby said yes. These beliefs about un-happiness are so imbedded in my concept of reality, of how it is. Bruce Di Marsico In this book Bruce explains the philosophy behind his Option Method Questions.
He had one simple truth to tell but each time he explained it, it was as if he had just breathed life into it for the first time.
The Option Method is not about memorizing questions. We talked and had lunch together. They may feel like facts, but beliefs are mental judgments we made up at some point for a variety of reasons.
Then my friend Anne Grete arrived to pick me up. He figured it was their problem.
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A special word of thanks to Jeffrey Pease for allowing us to re-publish them. Marscio by his side for over twenty years in his groups, classes and workshops, I never tired of his lectures. If you want to know more, please look for their books. I thought I might help people by coaching them through the right questions and the right attitude.
To order send check or money order to Deborah Mendel, P. Remembrance – by Deborah Mendel Several friends asked me to write something about Bruce for this issue.
What could I say?
I recalled the moments in his kitchen speaking about really nothing much at all: He loved to love. And always, always, I felt this enormous stream of kindness and compassion emanating from him.
There will never be a way we could demonstrate vi give ENOUGH to fully express the extent of our appreciation and gratitude for your existence. She waited until my session was over then came in to visit with us for a few moments. Option and Happiness are what I live, breathe and be and I am so utterly grateful to him.
Available as individual volumes or as a complete set at DialoguesinSelfDiscovery. You can now hear Bruce discuss the Option Method questions and reveal how asking these questions help uncover judgments and beliefs that stand in the way of happiness. I had never experienced an individual session with Bruce, only classes and groups. For him the freedom to be and to be happy stretched beyond space and time without restraint. The Myth of Unhappiness captures the essence of this groundbreaking self-help tool.
You have a wonderful smile. Years later while at work as a psychotherapist, and human relations consultant, he came to develop the Option Method as a self-help tool to help people become happier in their everyday lives. In brief, what Bruce was about most of the time was the pure zest of life, eating, laughing, joking around and pursuing a vast range of topics from everyday life with an ongoing, honest surge of wonder and excitement.
There were tears in my eyes. I was definitely concerned about this dinner event. Find out more about the audio CD. He was in great pain from many severe health problems.
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Barnaby was showing his maesico. One of my favorites is from Morty Lefkoe. He marsifo down to earth. Bruce, it seemed, was much happier devoting his time to writing for his lectures and classes and spending time with his students. He was out of this world. Bruce explains how our beliefs affect our happiness. If you want to go really deep, learn from the man credited with coming up with the process both Bears and Mandy use today: I bryce mixed emotions.
Initially I balked at the great chasm of awe that his presence represented, but being with him, like a flower in the presence of the sun, I felt the fullness of that freedom without restriction for the first time. It was not obligation, just part of his joy of being with people that he cared about and talking about what he enjoyed most talking about: Bruce was an extraordinary man, teacher, friend, husband.
In Memory of Bruce Di Marsico
He said he brucw me to know how he worked. Time with him was mystical and transforming. Life redirected me into writing books and coaching people through words.